I Watched My Dad Cry at a Movie Scene. I Was Angry. Because I Knew What He Was Like at Home.

I had got a bad experience which I don't want any of the children to face. From childhood I've always cried thinking of whatever bad happens in family. All children will have in mind their childhood thought irrespective of what kind it is, could be bad or good. To all the parents in world its your duty to rise your children out of violence. Unless you stop fights between yourselves, never expect your children to grow without fights. You are the responsibility for each and every action that your child does. It could be the way your child commands, the way it does house hold works or the way it shouts at people. None of the child gets behaviors out of you. All are genetic. Today if you shout, tomorrow don't get sad when you get shouting from your child.

Never think your child should be good unless you are that way. I used to think looking at my dad when he cries for emotional scenes in movie at my childhood that how he is able to cry now for this scene as he would have made the same sad scene before some time making the home violent. I was always having in mind that I should never grow like my dad shouting at people, breaking things. All parents would teach children that none of family matters should get out of home but keep in your mind parents, you should never create bad scene inside your home and try to control them when they want to cry it out. When stress grows in their mind its not only they who are affected it will be even you in future because of them. Always have in mind all your bad habits should never give a bad human to this world. 

Today I feel bad of myself throwing things on other people. I may think its just small pen which I'm throwing but its not the same for the person who is receiving it. I never had plan for throwing things on others but reality is things happen out of my control whom should I blame? In fact I keep saying to myself I should never get into throwing things. Seeing someone crying out of pain because of my behavior is hurting me more than them. I might have not done this if I would have never seen this in my life. Mom cries looking at me doing it and I cry myself thinking why am I behaving like this. Parents, never ever fight in front of children. If you don't like to stay together its better to stay away than making children feel afraid of you people. Family is most precious thing in whole world. Always listen to your children before advising anything to make sure they talk to you openly about any issue they are facing. Whatever it is. You would never imagine that small "Can i be your friend?" in first year of your college could become life threatening incident for that person because of the way parents handle them.

Love is not a big thing. I agree parents has to take children to right path but there should be some space given to children to tell about anything they want at any point of their life. We are just children, we don't know to handle life at some point that we need some guidance unless you give time and space to talk to you we wont understand how to handle them and we will be struck at that point or move to wrong path. Understand us!! we are just new to this world. 

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A child to some parents